wtf i get a call from my girl whos scared shitless bout this wetback she works with following her, she knows hes follwin her cus she drove through 2 different neighborhoods. i tell her to bring her ass home and ill deal with the lil f'er and so she does, sure enuff she starts freakin out even more when the bastard pulls into our apts. i jump out cut him off and proceed to bang on his window askin himk wtf he thinks hes doin, i forget hes a wetback, who knows what the hell hes sayin, meanwhile im bangin on his window tryin to open his door screamin and yellin at him my girl tryin to get me to stop sayin hes been drinkin and has coke on him ( he showed it to a another female co-worker tryin to be cool ) dunno if hell go berserk so then he pulls away, my girl was closing this nite and he comes up to there work buys her a beer, then goes outside and waits for her to leave, wtf, she was scared he dropped sumthing in her drink, of course i ask if there was anything i needed to know, she said theres nothing going on and i believe her, it sux i didnt get to smash his face in and we didnt call the cops, stupid on our part after realizing, sux that she had to complain about another mexican sexualy harrasing her at work, whats with these freakin poeple, times like this i juss say f'it build that fence and deport these f*cks!!!! SOrry for the rant but had to, were ok and shes gunna put a comlpaint in to her bosses, hope he gets fired cus she said shell quit. Anywyas sorry if i offended any mexicans orwhat not.....but honestly cmon now

Im really sorry to hear about this problem and I hope it dosen't continue. You should write everything down, every little detail.Inform the police, even after the fact, this gives them a heads up if this chit continues. Remember dates, times and all the other details, and keep your cool. Contact a lawyer, if this goes to court your good prep work will serve you well.Of course deal with any immediate threat.
Good Luck

I hate to say this, but you should rip his head right off his neck. This type of behavior is unacceptable to me and I would not tolerate it.

I hate to say this as I know how much you care for your girl, I also care very much for my wife but I have been around the block many times in my 32 years of life and have learned a few things about females.

Are you sure your girl is not some how subconciously provoking these males to take an attraction to her? I ask cause it sounds like in your post that this is not the first time she has had a secret admirer?

I have seen some of the happiets married females be the most flirty and provocative people in the room. The easiest girls to land and get attention from are the ones that are taken and married.

I agree with Upondeez.
Sound like this isn't the first time, and then you ask her if "there is anything you should know"..... Has she messed around on your before?
Either way,... I'd probably just go beat his a$$.

Rock

Your on the money. Also does she tell you no and such when you say to call the cops? Because if a girl is "scared" shitless about some stalker yet refuses to call the cops thats a big hint for you that maybe there is something else going on. If he has coke on him, and he is an illegal none the less driving drunk that is deportation.

Lay your pimp hand down. Period. Next time you see a stalker, stomp a mud hole right in his stalker ass face. I wouldn't blame the victim. If you trust your gf, then maybe she really didnt do anything. If youre not too sure, check. Either way, stalking someones gf or any woman is unacceptable.

i gotta say...i kinda like you deez...shes pretty really pretty, ive only seen this kind of shit from the illegal mexicans you know, two days prior she had to complain to a manager that one other illegal had done the ( eat you out ) thing with ur tongue, the gesture he did it 3 times b4 she had to complain, i dont think she does anything to provoke it, i juss think thats the mentality these illegals have that any girl is easy and what not, yeah i ask and question her if shes dun or is doing anything, comes with me bieng cointrolling and extremely jealous, everyday she comes home i have to stay up a extra 2 hours to hear her complaining bout sumone callin her bitch or a mexican grabbing her leg or doing sumthing nasty to her, seriously she hates it, and if i had my way theyd be dun and gone with ( one can only dream though ) and we asked every person she works with after he left last nite if we can call the cops hell talked to a officer at walgreens he said you have to call when its happeneing, it was me that told her not to call and head home so I could deal with it, she and I have warrants, i agree with dig, idk anymore she loves me and only me i trust her, we juss got back from her havin 3 ovarian cycst removal for the 4th yr in a row! so ima try and see if shell let me rub her feet a lil b4 bed and take care of her of course, thanks guys for the feedback allways appreciate it, tc, Late

Dude the answer to all your problems is *RESTRAINT ORDER*. Does wonders. Btw is kind of ironic your user name is jalapeno lol

Thanks jalapeno! The more I see you post the more you remind me of me 12 years ago as I am a bit older than you.

My mentality is based on my experiences, I once was in the mind set that you can trust females. I found out the hard way by the one that I thought I could trust was the exact opposite. These experiences have changed me and my mentality into what it is today.

My relationship with my wife is very, very open. We like to do things that your typical couples dont. I would rather be open about these things than blind to them while they go on behind my back.

Affairs, and cheating happen every single to day to the best of us. The latest statistics is like 85% of all married people have cheated, and a very high percentage of that 85% happened with a co-worker.

Smiles, flirting, going to lunch with someone is how it all starts. The next thing you know it is a full blown affair. Humans are animals and have animal instincts when it comes to maiting, you cant make your girl quit having urges and attractions.

Good luck bro, rub her feet well!

I have seen this before by people like this. Curious, what color of hair does your gf have? I think the folks south of the boarder watch too much US TV and believe it's real. Thus making them think American woman like that shit. My cousin in Corpus had a similar issue that went bad. His gf got off work and she was followed by a illegal. She stopped to get something to eat and he took her a knife point. She eventually jumped out of his truck and the perp was arrested.

Nevertheless, if someone followed my gf or wife like that I would have called the police first and then showed the Mexi my Glock second. Cures all problems!