yo bro...i hear what everyone is saying about being suspicious that your girl might be prevoking it but i know your situation wit her in a bit more detail from aim and i gotta say u are good to her. she would have to be crazy to fuck that shit up man... if u trust her and love her it's not worth the fight that accusing her will start. "keeping your pimp hand strong" is one thing but i think your more on the money about the mexican thing. most of those illegal mexicans are nasty horndogs that only think about sex and most times make passes at women who have no interest in them whatso ever so its probable that she didn't prevoke them if she s real pretty. anyway next time u see that fucker put him on his ass. that way he'll think twice next time he wants to harrass your girl.